You send a request
You fill in a short Individual request and tell us how you prefer to be contacted.
The Baxtlilar team reviews the request and gets in touch with you about the next step.
A request does not yet mean getting acquainted has started.
How Individual works
From request to introduction — step by step and personal
Individual starts with understanding your situation and expectations.
A personal manager helps clarify your criteria, reviews recommendations and supports the organisational side of the process. Getting acquainted goes further only with mutual interest.
We clarify your expectations
The manager talks through your:
- family plans
- non-negotiable criteria
- preferences
- life context
- important questions and expectations
This helps us understand not only the formal parameters, but what genuinely matters to you.
Not only «who you are looking for», but what truly matters to you.
We review recommendations
The manager uses your questionnaire data, your criteria and the Baxtlilar information provided for, to look more closely at potentially relevant recommendations.
Compatibility stays a hint — not a rating of a person or a forecast of a relationship.
Hands-on review complements the Baxtlilar matching, it does not replace it.
The next step — only with mutual interest
If a recommendation interests you, you decide for yourself whether to express interest. Getting acquainted can go further only when the other side is interested too.
Individual does not allow:
- working around a decline
- forcing a conversation open
- obtaining contacts without consent
- demanding a reply from another user
Getting acquainted starts only with two «yes».
We help arrange the next step
When the interest is mutual, the manager helps with the organisational side of what follows within Individual.
Personal conversation, sharing contacts and decisions about continuing stay with the users themselves.
Support — with no actions taken for you.
The process can be stopped
If your circumstances, expectations or plans have changed, work with Individual can be paused or ended within the terms of the service. Personal support does not oblige you to continue.
My Individual
StatusSelecting recommendations
- Request received
- Meeting with the manager
- Criteria clarified
- Reviewing recommendations
- Mutual interest
- Next step
Current stage
Reviewing recommendations
Your manager is working with the questionnaire, your criteria and the context of the request to prepare relevant options for you to consider.
Manager: Alina
Personal Individual manager
Your criteria
Change prioritiesNon-negotiable
What you genuinely will not consider getting acquainted without.
- Family plans
- Region of residence
Important
Taken into account in matching, but not turned into a hard limit.
- Values
- Lifestyle
- Plans for the future
The manager helps arrange the process — they do not make decisions
The job of Individual is to make the path more personal and more consistent.
But the manager cannot decide:
- who is «right» for you
- who you should express interest in
- whether another user should reciprocate
- whether you should continue getting acquainted
- what kind of relationship should form between you
Recommendation
The manager helps prepare options for you to consider.
Mutuality
The next step is possible only with the consent of both sides.
Your own choice
The final decision always stays with the users.
Individual is the Baxtlilar personal service for those who want a more attentive, guided process of getting acquainted.