Only with your permission
The access is defined by you.
Family / Trusted person
Support from someone close — without losing your boundaries
Family lets you connect someone close to selected stages of your acquaintance. You decide what stays open to them, while the final choice, the interest and the conversation always remain yours.
A trusted person helps with advice and support, but never acts on your behalf.
You define the access
Permissions are set one by one and can be changed at any time.
The decision is always yours
A trusted person cannot show interest, make decisions or talk to anyone instead of you.
Personal data stays protected
Contacts, documents and closed information never open automatically.
Family
Your space — under your control
Trusted person
Father
Connected
Permissions
- Recommendations
- Compatibility results
- Acquaintance status
- Topics to talk through
- Private messagesNot available
- ContactsNot available
- DocumentsNot available
Set the permissions
Switch off access
Never writes for you
The chat stays your personal space.
Can be switched off
Access is revoked at any moment.
Family is support, not control
A trusted person gets no right to make decisions, edit your profile or act on your behalf. You keep control at every step.
Limited access
Your own choice
Data protection
Revoking permissions
How Family works
Connect someone close in a few steps
Family helps you connect someone close to selected stages of your acquaintance without handing over control. You send the invitation yourself, set the permissions, and can change or switch off the access at any time.
1 Choose a trusted person
Connect someone you genuinely trust: a parent, a brother or sister, another relative, a close friend or anyone else close to you.
Only on your initiative.
2 Send the invitation
The trusted person receives an invitation and separately confirms joining Family in Baxtlilar.
The connection is confirmed by both sides.
3 Set the permissions
You decide exactly what stays open:
- recommendations
- compatibility results
- acquaintance status
- topics to talk through
Access is set per section.
4 Get support
The trusted person can look through the information you allowed to be shown, discuss recommendations, compatibility results and conversation topics — and support you with advice.
Support and discussion — with no actions on your behalf.
5 Change or switch off the access
If your circumstances change, you can update the permissions, pause the access temporarily or remove the trusted person entirely.
Control always stays with you.
Family
Invite a trusted person
Trusted person
Alisher
Invitation sent
Awaiting confirmation
After connecting
Set the permissions
- Recommendations
- Compatibility results
- Acquaintance status
- Topics to talk through
Always closed
- Private messages
- Contacts
- Documents
Save permissions
Pause access
Remove trusted person
The invitation is confirmed separately
A trusted person joins only after accepting the invitation.
You set the permissions
You control every access section Family provides.
Can be switched off
Access can be paused or revoked entirely.
What the trusted person sees is yours alone to decide
A trusted person gets access only to the information provided for in Family that you allowed to be shown.
Private messages, contacts and documents are never passed to them through Family.
Transparent access logic at every step
You always know who has access to what. Nothing happens without your knowledge.
Connection by your decision
Nobody is connected automatically.
Permissions can be changed
Access can be updated at any time.
Personal boundaries are kept
Private messages, contacts and documents stay closed.
Switch off at any time
You can pause access or revoke it entirely.
Family permissions
You decide what stays open
Family does not open your profile to a trusted person. You grant access only to the sections Family provides, one by one, while private conversation, contacts and actions on your behalf stay outside Family entirely.
What you can allow
Recommendations
A trusted person can see the recommendations you chose to share through Family.
Compatibility results
You can open the findings you allow about matches, differences and the topics worth talking through.
Acquaintance status
A trusted person can see what you allowed to be shown about the current stage of the acquaintance — with no way to control it.
Topics to talk through
Family can show questions and topics that help you talk the important things through with someone close.
Each permission can be changed separately.
Permissions for: Father
Access allowed
- RecommendationsAllowed
- Compatibility resultsAllowed
- Acquaintance statusAllowed
- Topics to talk throughAllowed
Access closed
- Private messagesNot available
- ContactsNot available
- DocumentsNot available
- Actions on your behalfNot available
Save changes
Pause access
Remove trusted person
Changes take effect once you save the settings.
Always stays with you
Private messages
A trusted person does not read your private chats through Family.
Contacts
Your phone number, Telegram and other contact details never open automatically and are not part of the permissions.
Documents and sensitive data
Documents and other closed information are never passed to a trusted person through Family.
Actions on your behalf
A trusted person cannot show interest, accept or decline it, or write to other users instead of you.
Editing your profile
A trusted person cannot change your profile, photos or matching criteria on their own.
Access does not mean the right to decide
Even if you have opened recommendations or compatibility results to a trusted person, the final choice always stays yours.
A trusted person cannot act on your behalf or take your place in conversations with other users.
You grant access yourself
Permissions are never switched on automatically.
You change it at any time
There is no need to connect the person again.
You revoke it fully
Once switched off, access through Family ends.
Family scenarios
Sometimes it helps to see the situation together
Getting to know someone is not only about the first impression. Sometimes it matters to talk through expectations, differences and questions that can affect how the acquaintance develops.
Family lets you connect someone close to exactly the moments you want to share.
01
Discuss a recommendation
You have received a recommendation and want to hear the opinion of someone you trust.
A trusted person can look through the information you allowed to be shown and help you notice the details that matter to you.
Recommendation
Alisher, 29
85% compatibility- Education
- Values
- Interests
- Region
An outside opinion — the decision is yours.
02
Go through compatibility
Some matches are obvious, while differences call for a conversation.
If you have opened the compatibility results, someone close can help you discuss them more calmly and put your questions into words for the conversation ahead.
78%
Compatibility
Matches15
Differences6
Topics to talk through
- Family values
- Financial expectations
- Plans for the future
Compatibility is a hint, not a verdict on a person.
03
Prepare for an important conversation
Starting a family, children, where you live, work, values and plans for the future — topics that are not always easy to bring up.
Family helps you look through the available topics together with someone close and decide what is important to ask about in person.
Topics to talk through
- Family and children
- Where you live
- Work and career
- Finances
- Values and faith
- Plans for the future
The conversation is yours to have.
04
Get an outside view
While you are getting to know someone, it is easy to read too much into one thing and miss another.
Someone close can share an observation or ask a question that helps you see the situation from another angle.
Trusted person's note
I noticed that the two of you see moving to another city differently. Perhaps it is worth discussing this in advance.
12:30
Advice is not a decision made for you.
Support as the acquaintance develops
Family can be useful not only when you choose a recommendation. If you have allowed the acquaintance status and topics to talk through to be shown, a trusted person can understand the general context and support you as the communication develops — with no access to your private messages.
Current status
- Interest
- Communication
- Active acquaintance
- Decision
A trusted person sees only the part of the situation you chose to share
So their opinion is based on the information available to them and does not replace your own conversation with the person.
Advice from someone close is one more point of view
A trusted person can help you spot a question, talk a doubt through or look at the situation differently.
But Family does not determine whether another person is right for you, and does not decide whether the acquaintance continues.
Helps you discuss
Important questions can be talked through together.
Does not assess a person
Family does not issue a verdict about a user.
Does not replace talking
Decisions rest on getting to know the person yourself.
Does not choose for you
The final decision always stays with you.
Choosing a trusted person
Trust between you matters more than formal family ties
A trusted person can be someone close to you with whom you feel comfortable talking important things through and getting support.
What matters is that they respect your boundaries, do not try to steer the acquaintance and can share their opinion without pressure.
A trusted person does not have to be a parent
Depending on your situation, this could be:
- a parent
- a brother or sister
- another relative
- a close friend
- anyone else you trust
What matters most is that you are comfortable getting support from this person and sharing the information you allowed to be shown.
Invite a trusted person
Name
Alisher
How are they related to you?
Brother
This information is shown for convenience only and does not define the scope of access.
Permissions after connecting
Recommendations
Viewing the recommendations you allowed
Compatibility results
Matches, differences, topics to talk through
Acquaintance status
The current stage and how things are going
Topics to talk through
Suggested questions and topics
Send the invitation
Access opens only after the invitation is accepted and only within the permissions you chose.
01
You trust them
You are ready to discuss personal matters with this person and know they will treat the information available to them with care.
Trust matters more than formal family ties.
02
They respect your choice
A trusted person can ask questions, disagree with you and share an opinion — but should never make decisions in your place.
Advice without pressure.
03
You can speak openly with them
You can calmly talk through doubts, expectations and difficult topics without fear of judgement or pressure.
A conversation should help, not complicate things.
04
They respect personal boundaries
A trusted person understands that Family gives no right to interfere in your chats, demand contacts or steer the acquaintance.
Access to Family does not mean control.
Do not connect someone just because “it is expected”
Family only helps when you genuinely feel comfortable sharing part of getting to know someone.
Connecting a trusted person is optional.
Family only works where there is trust
Connecting someone close should never take away your independence.
A good trusted person can help you ask a question, notice an important detail or see the situation differently — and leaves the final decision to you.
You choose the person
Nobody is appointed automatically.
They accept the invitation
Connecting requires the consent of both sides.
You control the access
The trusted person's role grants no extra rights beyond Family permissions.
Family privacy
Family does not override your personal boundaries
Connecting a trusted person does not open your account and does not change the basic privacy rules of Baxtlilar.
Family grants only the access you have set up yourself to selected features — without handing over control of the acquaintance.
How Family privacy works
You
Profile owner
Family permissions
Only the features you opened to a trusted person
Trusted person
Sees only what you allowed
Always stays closed
- Private messages
- The other user's contacts
- Documents and sensitive data
- Actions on your behalf
- Editing your profile and settings
01
No access to the whole profile
Connecting Family does not in itself mean that a trusted person gets full access to your profile or your account.
They see only the information available within the Family features you allowed.
Connecting ≠ full access.
02
Private conversation stays private
Family is not meant for reading your messages or talking to other users instead of you.
The chat after mutual interest stays the space of the people getting acquainted.
Your conversation stays yours.
03
Contacts and documents do not open through Family
Your phone number, Telegram, documents and other sensitive data do not open to a trusted person automatically just because Family is connected.
Family is not a channel for passing personal data.
04
Access can be ended
You can change the permissions, pause Family or remove the trusted person.
Once it is switched off, access to your profile through Family ends.
Access is not granted forever.
Family grants no extra rights over the other user
Connecting a trusted person concerns only your side of the acquaintance.
It gives a trusted person no right to receive the other user's personal data, contact them, bypass their privacy settings or make decisions in place of the people getting acquainted.
If you change your mind, no explanation is needed
You can change or end Family access whenever you find it necessary.
The decision on whom to connect and how long to keep the access open stays yours.
Privacy remains the rule even after Family is connected
Family adds one more way to get support, but it does not turn a personal acquaintance into a shared family account.
No shared account
Everyone involved stays a separate user.
No bypassing privacy
Family grants no rights over another person.
No handover of control
Interest, conversation and final decisions stay with the profile owner.
Safety and respect for personal boundaries are the foundation of how Baxtlilar works.
Questions about Family
What matters to know, briefly
Connecting a trusted person remains voluntary and stays under your control.
Here are the main questions about access, actions and personal boundaries in Family.
No. Family is an additional support service.
You decide for yourself whether you want someone close involved while you are getting acquainted, who to connect and when.
Family is not a requirement for using Baxtlilar.
No. Only the user themselves can show interest, accept it or decline it.
Family does not hand these actions over to a trusted person.
Interest always stays your decision.
No. A trusted person does not write to other users on your behalf and does not get access to your private messages through Family.
Your conversation stays yours.
No. Connecting Family does not open your whole profile or account.
A trusted person gets access only to the Family features you have allowed.
Connecting ≠ full access.
No. Family does not pass your phone number, Telegram, documents or other closed information to a trusted person.
If you later decide to share your contacts outside Family yourself, that is a separate action of your own.
Family is not a channel for passing on contacts.
Yes, if you have granted the relevant permission. A trusted person will be able to see the results provided for in Family: matches, differences and topics to talk through.
At the same time, compatibility stays a hint — not a verdict on a person or a guarantee of a relationship.
The results are there to discuss — the decision stays yours.
Yes. You can change the Family permissions later on, with no need to connect the trusted person again.
Access can be revisited.
Yes. You can pause the access temporarily or remove the trusted person entirely.
Access is not granted forever.
No. This could be a parent, a brother or sister, another relative, a close friend or anyone else you trust.
What matters is not a formal family tie, but trust and respect for your personal boundaries.
Trust matters more than formal family ties.
No. A trusted person can share an opinion, point out an important question or help you talk the situation through.
But the decision to show interest, to talk and to keep getting acquainted is yours alone.
Advice is one more point of view, not a decision made for you.
Did not find the answer you needed?
If your question is about how Family works, permissions or privacy settings, get in touch with Baxtlilar support.
Family does not replace your choice — it helps you get support within the boundaries that feel right to you.
Family / Trusted person
Support from someone close — on your terms
If it matters to you to talk things through with someone you trust while you are getting acquainted, Family lets you connect them to selected stages of the process.
You choose a trusted person, set the permissions — and the final choice stays yours.
Family is optional — You can use Baxtlilar without connecting a trusted person at all.
You
Profile owner
Family connected
Recommendations
The ones you allowed
Compatibility results
Matches and differences
Topics to talk through
Questions and topics
Acquaintance status
How things are going
Manage access
Trusted person
Father
You choose
Who to connect — and whether you need Family at all.
You set it up
What information provided for in Family a trusted person can see.
You decide
Interest, conversation and continuing the acquaintance always stay with you.
Personal choice, mutual interest and conversation always stay with the profile owner.