Only questions that matter
The questionnaire covers information that can genuinely affect family plans, lifestyle, expectations and personal boundaries.
Profile & compatibility
Matching based onvalues, goalsand lifestyle
Baxtlilar takes your questionnaire answers into account and compares family goals, values, expectations, lifestyle and important personal boundaries.
The result helps you see the main matches and differences before you start talking.
Family goals and life plans
Views on marriage and children, plans for the future, timing for starting a family and relocation.
Values and views on family
Worldview, family principles, roles in a relationship, upbringing and traditions.
Lifestyle and personal boundaries
Habits, interests, daily routine, way of life and conditions that matter in a relationship.
Compatibility
Sample result
82%
Many important matches
The score is based on questionnaire answers and the selected criteria.
- Family goals88%
- Values and views84%
- Lifestyle76%
The result helps you see matches and differences, but it does not decide for you.
Compatibility is advisory only: it does not guarantee a relationship and does not replace the user's own decision.
Why a detailed questionnaire matters
A detailed questionnaire makes recommendations more precise
The more completely and accurately the questionnaire is filled in, the more important criteria the system can take into account when building recommendations. That helps you see significant matches and differences in advance.
There are no right or wrong answers
The questionnaire does not judge the user and does not decide who is better or worse. What matters is answering honestly and in line with your real situation.
Answer visibility is limited
Every answer has a defined visibility mode: some information is shown on the profile, some is used only for recommendations, and sensitive details are not disclosed automatically.
The questionnaire can be updated
If your plans, circumstances or preferences change, you can correct your answers. After significant changes the questionnaire may need moderation again.
Not a guarantee of any outcome
Compatibility is advisory. It does not guarantee a relationship, a marriage or any particular outcome, and it does not decide for the user.
The basis for personal recommendations
Answers help the system take mandatory conditions, preferences and important differences into account when building recommendations.
You stay in control of your answers
Required and optional questions
They are marked separately — you can see what matters now and what can wait.
Explanations next to questions
We explain why each question is needed, especially when it touches on an important topic.
A visibility mode for every answer
You always know who can see your information: visible on the profile, used only for matching, or not shown to anyone.
Drafts and saving
You can save the questionnaire as a draft and continue filling it in later, whenever it suits you.
Editing answers
Answers can be changed at any time in profile settings. After significant changes moderation may run again.
Examples of question statuses:RequiredOptionalMatching onlyVisible on profile
A complete questionnaire saves time for both sides
Important goals, expectations and differences become clear before the conversation starts. Compatibility helps make a more informed choice, but the final decision always stays with the user.
Privacy and visibility
What others can see, and what stays hidden
Every answer has a defined visibility mode. Some information is shown on the profile, some opens only at a certain stage, and sensitive details are used solely for matching or safety.
For the fields that allow it, you can change visibility in profile settings; for sensitive and service data, mandatory platform rules apply.
On the profile
The information is shown to suitable users in recommendations and on the profile.
For example:
- display name
- age
- selected region
- general questionnaire details
- answers you allowed to be shown
Some fields are configurable
After mutual interest
The information opens only after both sides agree and in line with privacy settings.
For example:
- some extended answers
- additional questionnaire details
- photos, if that mode is selected
You can change this
Matching only
The answer is used by the system when building recommendations, but is not shown to the other user directly.
For example:
- mandatory limits
- certain preferences
- sensitive criteria
- parameters used to build recommendations
Some fields can be opened on the profile
Not shown to other users
These details do not appear on the profile, in recommendations or in private conversation. How they are processed is defined by the purpose of the field and platform rules.
For example:
- documents, phone number and Telegram
- precise location
- verification service data
- internal ID, reports and blocks
Not configurable — protected by default
Limited internal access
Authorised staff can access data only within their role and for a specific work task:
- identity verification
- moderation
- safety
- handling a report
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Step 4 of 8Visibility
Choose what to show on your profile
For the fields that allow it, you can change the mode at any time.
- AgeOn the profile
- RegionOn the profile
- PhotosBy settings and stage
- Marital statusOn the profile
- Family goalsOn the profile
- Religious viewsMatching only
- Children (yes / no)By settings
- Number of childrenAfter mutual interest
- HabitsMatching only
On the profile
Visible to other users in recommendations and on the profile.
After mutual interest
Opens only after both sides agree and in line with your settings.
Matching only
Used by the system for more precise recommendations, but not shown.
Not shown
Not visible to other users and not part of the profile.
What shapes the result
What forms a personal compatibility score
The score is calculated separately for each pair, based on questionnaire answers. The system takes family goals, values, expectations, lifestyle and other important topics into account in order to show the main matches and differences.
It is a reference point for an informed choice, not an assessment of a person or a prediction about a relationship.
Family goals and timing
The intention to start a family, views on marriage and children, preferred timing and plans for a shared future.
Values and worldview
Views on family, responsibility, upbringing, traditions and the life principles that matter to you.
Family expectations
Ideas about roles, responsibilities, children, personal boundaries and the involvement of relatives.
Communication style
Preferences in conversation, expressing emotions, making decisions and resolving disagreements.
Compatibility
result
Lifestyle
Daily routine, workload, habits, interests, attitude to health and everyday life.
Region and readiness to relocate
Where you live, plans to move, acceptable distance and preferences about where to live in future.
Intentions and plans
How serious the intentions are, the timing, and views on how the acquaintance should develop.
Topics to discuss
Important differences that do not rule out getting to know each other, but may call for an open conversation.
‹Compatibility
Sample personal result
82%
Many important matches
The score was calculated for this recommendation only.
Main matches
- Values and worldview90%
- Family goals85%
- Family expectations80%
- Lifestyle75%
- Communication style75%
Topics to discuss
There are a few questions that are better discussed in advance.
Compatibility is a hint, not a guarantee of a relationship or marriage. Baxtlilar helps you see possible matches and topics to discuss, but the final decision always stays with the user.
How it works
From questionnaire to a mindful introduction
Questionnaire answers help build more suitable recommendations, show important matches and differences in advance, and move to a conversation only when the interest is mutual.
Fill in the questionnaire
You answer questions about family goals, values, lifestyle, expectations and personal boundaries.
Get recommendations
The system builds personal recommendations based on your answers, mandatory conditions and preferences.
Study the profile
You look through the profile information you are allowed to see, your personal compatibility and the topics worth discussing.
Express interest
If the profile suits you, you can send a request to get acquainted.
One-sided interest does not open a conversation.
Start the conversation
If the other user accepts the interest and the plan conditions are met, a chat opens inside Baxtlilar.
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Chat after mutual interest
The conversation opens after both sides agree.
Sevara
Hello! Thank you for accepting my interest.
You
Hello! Nice to meet you too.
You
Could you tell me a little about your family plans?
Write a message...
What this approach gives you
Fewer random recommendations
Matching relies on the important questionnaire answers, not only on age, region or a photo.
More understanding before you talk
Key goals, expectations and possible differences become clear before the conversation starts.
Conversation after consent
One-sided interest does not let you write to the other user.
A decision without pressure
A user can accept an interest, decline it, end the acquaintance or block the other person.
Support from family — optional
A trusted person is added only by the user's decision and gets limited access.
Verification and safety
Verification and moderation run through every step
Before a profile is published, the user confirms their identity, and the questionnaire and photos go through moderation. Once a profile joins matching, privacy rules, limits on unwanted behaviour, reporting and blocking continue to apply.
Verification helps reduce risk, but it does not guarantee a person's intentions or later behaviour.
1
Registration and rules
The user creates an account, confirms a phone number and accepts the platform rules and mandatory consents.
The start of the path, with clear rules.
2
Identity confirmation
Identity is confirmed through one of the available methods. If needed, the profile is sent for an additional check.
Helps reduce the risk of fake profiles.
3
Questionnaire and photo moderation
The team checks mandatory details, texts and photos against Baxtlilar requirements and rules.
A questionnaire is published only after the check.
4
Admission to recommendations
Once the mandatory checks are complete and privacy settings are selected, the profile can take part in matching.
The user confirms publication of the questionnaire.
5
Conversation after mutual interest
A one-sided request does not open a conversation. Access to chat appears only after both sides agree and the plan conditions are met.
Consent matters more than the plan.
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Reports and re-checks
A user can be blocked, and a violation can be reported to the moderation team. Reports, suspicious changes or risk signals can be grounds for a re-check.
Protective actions are available regardless of the plan.
Profile verification status
Profile admitted to matching
The mandatory steps are complete. The questionnaire can appear in recommendations according to the selected privacy settings.
- Phone confirmed
- Identity checked
- Questionnaire moderated
- Photos moderated
- Privacy settings selected
- Profile published
Contacts, documents, precise location and service data are not shown to other users automatically.
Verification reduces the risk of fake profiles, but does not guarantee a user's intentions and behaviour.
Our commitments
Confidentiality
Personal and service data is processed according to its purpose and does not become part of the public profile.
Respectful interaction
Insults, pressure, threats, spam and attempts to get around a refusal are prohibited by the platform rules.
Clear statuses
The user can see whether a profile is under review, needs corrections, is approved or is restricted.
Support and reports
A violation can be reported from a profile or a chat. The reporting user is not disclosed to the alleged violator.
Proportionate measures
Depending on the violation, a warning, a feature restriction, a re-check or a block may be applied.
Your next step
Ready to fill in the questionnaire and start mindful matching?
Create a profile for free, answer the important questions and get recommendations that take your family goals, values, expectations and lifestyle into account.
The more complete and accurate the questionnaire, the more meaningful criteria the system can take into account when matching.
There are no right answers
The questionnaire does not judge you. What matters is answering honestly and in line with your real situation.
Visibility stays under control
Every answer has a clear mode: on the profile, after mutual interest, matching only, or closed.
Compatibility is a hint
The score helps you see matches and differences, but it does not guarantee a relationship or marriage.
The decision stays with you
The system builds recommendations, but it does not choose a person or decide for the user.
Your path starts with the questionnaire
Fill in the questionnaire honestly so the system can take more important criteria into account and build more suitable recommendations.
Step 4 of 850%
Sample personal result
82%
Many important matches
Family goals and plans
Values and worldview
Lifestyle and habits
Expectations of a partner
Personal boundaries
Compatibility helps you see the bigger picture, but the final choice always stays with you.
Not every answer is shown
Some details are used only for recommendations and do not appear on the profile.
Conversation after mutual interest
A one-sided request does not open a chat. Both sides decide about getting acquainted.
Privacy by default
Contacts, documents, precise location and service data are not disclosed automatically.
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Baxtlilar is not about fast random dating. It is about understanding, respect and serious intentions.
Your safety is our priority
What to know before you start
Verification, privacy and mutual consent are built into the path to getting acquainted. They help reduce risk, but they do not replace personal caution and the user's own judgement.
Identity and profile verificationBefore joining matching, a user confirms their identity, and the questionnaire and photos go through moderation.Privacy by defaultSensitive details are not part of the public profile and are not disclosed to other users automatically.Chat after mutual interestA conversation becomes available only after both sides agree and the plan conditions are met.Reporting and blockingA violation can be reported to the moderation team, and an unwanted user can be blocked regardless of the plan.
Verification helps reduce the risk of fake profiles, but it does not guarantee a person's intentions or later behaviour.