Safety starts before the first message
Baxtlilar reduces risk at every stage — from registration and identity verification to mutual interest, conversation and ending an introduction.
Identity verification
Before joining the matching pool, the user completes identity verification and the questionnaire goes through moderation.
Privacy by default
Contacts, documents, precise location and other sensitive information are never disclosed automatically.
Chat after mutual interest
A one-sided request does not open a chat. Communication starts only after both sides agree.
Reporting and blocking
A user can be blocked at any moment, and violations can be reported to the moderation team.
Your profile is protected
Data is hidden by default
- Phone numberNot shown
- TelegramNot shown
- Precise locationNot shown
- DocumentsNever shown to users
- PhotographsPer your settings
Contacts and sensitive data are never disclosed automatically. You decide when and to whom you open access.
Profile verification
Before joining the matching pool, the user completes identity verification and the questionnaire goes through moderation.
Data control
Personal data is processed in line with your privacy settings and the platform rules. It is never disclosed to other users automatically.
Mutual interest
A one-sided request does not open a chat. Communication starts only after both sides agree and the plan's conditions are met.
Support and reports
A user can block someone, submit a report and contact the support team.
Four layers of protection before communication begins
Before communication begins, the user completes identity verification, the questionnaire goes through moderation and personal data stays hidden. Chat opens only after mutual interest and once the plan's conditions are met.
Identity and questionnaire verification
Before joining the matching pool, the user completes identity verification, and their questionnaire and photographs go through moderation.
Verification reduces the risk of fake profiles, but it does not guarantee a person's intentions or behaviour.
Privacy by default
Phone number, Telegram, documents, precise location and other sensitive information are never disclosed to other users automatically.
Chat after mutual interest
A one-sided request does not open a conversation.
Chat becomes available only after both sides agree and the plan's conditions are met.
Reporting and blocking
A user can be blocked at any moment, and violations can be reported to the moderation team.
Reporting and blocking are available regardless of your plan.
No platform can fully eliminate the risk of deception or inappropriate behaviour.
Baxtlilar uses verification, limits and safety tools to reduce those risks and keep control with the user.
Personal data is never disclosed automatically
Contacts, photographs and other personal information are hidden by default.
Some data can be opened only by the user's decision and within the platform rules, while documents and internal verification records are never shown to other users.
Phone number
HiddenThe phone number is not displayed in the profile and is never disclosed to other users automatically.
Telegram
HiddenYour username, phone number and other Telegram details are not shown to the other person automatically. Communication starts inside Baxtlilar.
Precise location
Not shownOther users never see your exact address, coordinates or position on a map. Only the region you select may be used for matching.
Photographs
Per your settingsRecommendations show an avatar by default while real photographs stay hidden. Their visibility depends on the stage of the introduction and your privacy settings.
Documents
Not shownDocuments are used only for identity verification and are not part of the public profile. Other users never get access to them.
Never shown to users
Verification records
Internal dataVerification results, internal moderation marks and service information are not published in the profile and are available only to authorised staff within their roles.
Never shown to users
Privacy is on by default
Users do not need to hide contacts, documents and sensitive information separately after registration.
Baxtlilar limits their visibility from the start, and the available settings let you manage only the data that may be disclosed.
What other users see
Baxtlilar shows only the information needed for a mindful choice. The visibility of photographs and certain data depends on your privacy settings and the stage of the introduction, while contacts, documents and internal records are never published.
1. Visible in the profile
Other users can see this data
Basic information
Your display name or its shortened form, age, selected region and general details allowed to appear in the profile.
The internal user ID is not published and is not used for open profile search.
Family goals and values
The intention to start a family, views on marriage and children, lifestyle, expectations and other answers allowed to be shown.
Personal compatibility
The score is calculated separately for each recommendation and shown only to the person the profile is suggested to.
This is not a public user rating.
Photographs per settings
Recommendations show an avatar by default. Real photographs appear in line with your privacy settings and the stage of the introduction.
2. Depends on settings and stage
This data may become available under certain conditions
Photographs
Real photographs appear in line with your privacy settings and the stage of the introduction.
Managed in privacy settings
Extended questionnaire answers
Some answers may be shown only to matching candidates or after mutual interest.
Depends on your settings and the stage
Contact exchange
Contacts can be shared only through a separate voluntary action by both sides, if such a feature is provided by the platform.
Only by mutual consent
Family / trusted person
They get access only to a pre-approved scope of information and cannot see private conversations without the user's separate consent.
Managed in Family settings
3. Never shown
Other users never see this data
Personal contacts
Phone number, Telegram username and other contact methods are not displayed in the profile and are never disclosed automatically.
Documents
Documents are used only for identity verification and are never shown to other users.
Verification and moderation
Internal statuses, reasons for decisions, moderator comments and service records are not published in the profile.
Private actions
Other users cannot see your reports, blocks, declines, hidden profiles or safety settings.
You are in control of your privacy
You decide what information appears in your profile. Baxtlilar limits the visibility of personal data from the start so introductions stay safe, respectful and mindful.
Privacy by default
Only the necessary information
Mindful introductions
A trusted person helps, but does not run your introduction
You can invite someone close to you for advice and support. They will see only the information you allow in advance, but they cannot act on your behalf, read private conversations or receive your contacts.
What a trusted person can do
View the allowed parts of the profile
A trusted person sees only the amount of information you allowed in the Family settings.
View recommendations
They can look through suggested profiles and discuss them with you outside the candidates' private chat.
Leave a recommendation
A trusted person can share an opinion or suggest paying attention to a profile, but does not decide for you.
See the general status
They can see only the general stage: recommendation, mutual interest, an active or finished introduction — without the content of private conversations.
Your space stays under your control
A trusted person helps with advice, but does not get access to private conversations and does not make decisions for you.
Family / Trusted person
Alisher M.
ConnectedConnected 12.04.2024
Access granted by you
What they can see
Basic profile information
Name, age, selected region and general details
Recommendations
Suggested profiles
Leave recommendations
Share an opinion on profiles
General introduction status
The stage, without details
Private conversations, contacts and documents are never passed to or shown to a trusted person.
What a trusted person cannot do
Cannot read private conversations
Messages between users stay private and are never shown to a trusted person automatically.
Cannot send or accept interest
A trusted person cannot act on the user's behalf or make decisions for them.
Cannot change the profile or settings
Photographs, questionnaire answers, privacy and matching parameters stay under the profile owner's control.
Does not receive contacts or documents
Phone number, Telegram, documents, precise location and other sensitive data are never passed to a trusted person.
Cannot see reports and blocks
Safety settings, declines, reports and blocked users stay private.
Access can be switched off
The user can change permissions or fully disconnect the trusted person at any moment.
Support nearby — the decision stays yours
Family combines help from someone close with the user's personal freedom. Every permission is configured separately and can be revoked at any moment.
Access by invitation only
A trusted person can be connected only through your invitation.
The user sets the permissions
You decide how much information a trusted person can see.
Private conversations stay closed
Your chats and personal contacts are fully protected and not available even to a trusted person.
Every decision is made by the profile owner
You decide who to meet, who to talk to and what to decide.
Family is support, not control over your introduction.
Your path, your choice, your story.
Verification and moderation before a profile is published
Before joining the matching pool, the user confirms their identity, and the questionnaire and photographs go through moderation. This reduces the risk of fake profiles and violations, but it does not guarantee a person's intentions or future behaviour.
Identity confirmation
The user confirms their identity through one of the available methods and links a verified phone number.
- An available identification method
- Phone number confirmation
- Photo or face check (where provided)
Additional check when needed
If the data is incomplete, inconsistent or raises doubts, the profile is sent for an additional check by a moderator.
- Cross-checking the provided data
- Checking for possible duplicates
- Clarifying disputed information
Questionnaire moderation
The team checks that the questionnaire is complete, worded correctly and complies with the platform rules.
- Required fields
- Respectful tone
- No advertising or contact details
- Compliance with the rules
Photo moderation
Photographs are checked against the user, quality requirements and the platform rules.
- No photographs of other people
- No prohibited content
- No advertising, contacts or captions
- No misleading images
Admission to matching
Once the required checks are complete, the profile joins the matching pool and appears in recommendations according to the privacy settings. After publication, a profile may be re-checked following a report, an abrupt change of data or signs of suspicious activity.
- Profile verification status
- Access to recommendations
- Possibility of repeat moderation
A profile is published only after the required checks
If verification is incomplete, the information needs clarification or the questionnaire breaks the rules, the profile is not admitted to matching. The user receives a clear status and, where possible, can correct the data and submit the questionnaire again.
Confirmed identity
Verification helps confirm that the profile belongs to a specific person.
Checked questionnaire and photos
The questionnaire and photographs go through moderation before appearing in recommendations.
Repeat checks
Reports and risk signals can trigger a new round of moderation.
An honest limit
Verification reduces the risk of deception, but it does not guarantee a user's intentions or behaviour.
Communication starts after mutual interest
A one-sided request does not open a conversation. The other user decides whether to accept the interest or decline the introduction. Access to chat depends on the conditions of the selected plan.
One-sided interest does not open a chat
Until the other user accepts the request, you cannot send them a message.
The decision stays with you
You decide whose interest to accept, whom to decline and with whom to continue.
Control at every stage
A request can be declined, a user can be blocked, and a violation can be reported to the moderation team.
Reporting, declining and blocking are available regardless of your plan.
Mutual interest
You have both confirmed you are ready to start.
To open the chat, meet the conditions of your plan.
How it works
You receive recommendations
You review suggested profiles selected with your requirements, values and expectations in mind.
You express interest
You send a request to connect, with or without a short respectful message.
The other user decides
The recipient can accept the interest, decline it or leave it until the request closes automatically. A request is valid for 72 hours.
Mutual interest appears
If the request is accepted, both sides confirm they are ready to start the introduction.
Access to chat opens
The system checks the plan's conditions. If they are met, a chat opens inside Baxtlilar.
Fewer unwanted contacts and less pressure
Mutual interest, limits on repeated requests, reporting and blocking help reduce the risk of spam and intrusive behaviour. The user keeps the right to decline or end an introduction at any moment.
Limits on mass requests
Limits and anti-spam rules prevent sending interest without any control.
A decision without pressure
A decline needs no explanation and cannot be bypassed by a paid feature, a gift or a repeated request.
Reporting and blocking
Intrusive or inappropriate behaviour can be stopped regardless of your plan.
If something feels wrong — we are here
In Baxtlilar, every user can protect themselves and ask for help. We respond to reports and rule violations.
What you can do
Report
Tell us about a violation. We will review every case.
Block
You can block a user, and they will no longer be able to message you.
Stop communication
Leave the chat at any moment. Your decision is always under your control.
Contact support
Our support team can help you in any situation.
Report
We take your safety seriously
Your report will remain confidential.
Choose a reason
How we respond
Review
We carefully review every report.
Analyze
We check the profile, messages and user actions.
Take action
Violators may receive a warning or account block.
Inform
We let you know the result when necessary.
Your safety is our priority
Baxtlilar is created for respectful and safe communication. We do not tolerate violations and protect every user.
Confidentiality
Your report remains confidential.
Fairness
We treat all users equally.
Safe community
Together, we create a calm space.
Ready to start dating with respect for your privacy?
Create a profile, complete verification and receive recommendations in a space built on mutual consent, personal boundaries and serious intentions.
Identity verification
Before joining the matching pool, the user completes identity verification, and the questionnaire and photographs go through moderation.
Privacy by default
Contacts, documents, precise location and other sensitive information are never disclosed automatically.
Chat after mutual interest
A one-sided request does not open a conversation. Communication starts only after both sides agree and the plan's conditions are met.
Reports and support
A user can be blocked, a violation can be reported to the moderation team and, if needed, you can contact support. Protective tools are available regardless of your plan.
Baxtlilar
Your profile has passed verification
The required stages are complete. Your profile can now join matching according to your privacy settings.
Identity confirmed
Questionnaire moderated
Data hidden by default
Reporting and blocking available
Verification reduces risk, but it does not replace personal caution.
Baxtlilar helps you meet people calmly, respectfully and mindfully
Verification, privacy, mutual interest and support tools help reduce risk and keep control with the user at every stage of an introduction.
Identity and questionnaire verification
Privacy by default
Reporting, blocking and support